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Chapter 493

As the incident of the boy in his early 20s drawing a knife and preparing to cut his neck gradually fermented on the Internet.

The impulsive personality of this young man, who often threatened to commit suicide, intimidate and threaten others,

attracted the attention and discussion of many netizens, especially some parents.

This scene just now reminded many parents of their own children.

They spoke out in the live broadcast room barrage and the official website of "My Dad is Superman".

Many parents said that their children had threatened them many times by running away from home, jumping off a building, cutting their wrists...

There are also many parents who complain that as their children grow up, they become more and more rebellious and quarrel with them at home.

Sometimes, they even slam the door, throw the stool, and even speak rudely to them...

...

Director Wang also noticed the comments of these parents.

Notice to switch the screen of the live broadcast room to the observation room.

Director Wang passed the task topic to Xiao Ai through the headset.

Let her advance in the observation room.

Xiao Ai received the task and immediately held the microphone and said elegantly.

"This episode just now was really thrilling."

"A boy in his early 20s, who had just entered society and was preparing to get married and embrace a better life, almost left this world right in front of us."

"It really touched me."

"Our program team also sincerely advises everyone not to be so impulsive when doing anything.

Think more about your relatives, lovers, the elderly and children around you...

Think about the beauty in life.

Maybe you will stop taking that step."

"Don't threaten the people you love with your life. There is nothing more precious than life."

"We just saw , and the young man later regretted it.

However, if everyone in front of the video encountered such a thing, Xiao Yang might not be right next to you to block the knife for you. "

"Just now I noticed the barrage in the live broadcast room.

Many parents said that their children often said to themselves, "I don't want to live anymore, I want to die, or I want to run away from home..." This made many parents very worried and exhausted. "

"For this phenomenon, Principal Shi, Professor Deng, as child education psychology experts, do you have any suggestions for these parents?"

As he said, Xiao Ai glanced at Principal Shi and Professor Deng.

The young man's behavior just now not only frightened the audience at the scene and in the live broadcast room.

The four observers were also worried just now.

At this time, Principal Shi said in a deep voice.

"Let me talk about my opinion first . "

"Young people nowadays have poor stress resistance!"

"When they encounter a little bit of unhappiness or frustration, the first thing they think of is not to solve the problem, but to be sad, depressed, or even commit suicide."

"These people have been spoiled by their parents since childhood. They are spoiled by several parents at home and have everything they want. They live a very smooth life."

"But once they enter society and encounter a little frustration, they can't accept the pressure and want to die."

"Either they go to extremes, or they threaten their family and lovers, let others pay for their mistakes, and become giant babies who never grow up. . "

"For this situation, my suggestion is that you should not spoil your children from childhood.

You cannot praise your children to the sky when they do something a little bit. You should suppress them at the right time and let them feel a little frustrated.

In this way, they will have a strong ability to withstand pressure when they grow up. "

"For example, if a child gets 98 points in the exam, if the child comes back happily and is very proud, his tail will be up to the sky.

You should give him more difficult questions to test him,

Tell him not to be proud and complacent, there are people better than you, don't be too proud. Keep up the good work!"

Xiao Ai nodded repeatedly, indicating that he had learned something.

"What about Professor Deng?"

"Do you have any suggestions for parents?"

Professor Deng picked up the microphone.

"What I want to say is similar to what Principal Shi wants to say.

Children must be educated about setbacks from an early age."

"Let me tell you a case, which is also a child I met recently.

She is in the fourth grade of elementary school, has good learning ability, and has been the class monitor from grades 1 to 3.

As a result, this semester, another student in their class won her by one vote and became the new class monitor of their class.

The child was very sad and angry. She couldn't accept it in her heart. She went on a hunger strike at home for several days and even refused to go to school.

Her mother was very anxious and came to consult me. What should I do in this situation?"

"Just now I watched the barrage in the live broadcast room and saw that many parents have such confusion, especially rebellious children in adolescence, the situation is even more serious."

"However, at this time, I will criticize all the parents. "

"You came to consult too late, and you understand too late."

Many parents hold their children in their hands, and are reluctant to hit or scold them. They treat their children as little emperors at home, just like Ding Li treats Yangyang, fearing that their children will suffer."

"And those two young people want to buy a house, emptying the savings of both parents."

"It is not a bad thing to let children suffer, on the contrary, it is a good thing.

If they don't suffer now, they will suffer a lot when they grow up."

"In the barrage, many parents said that they can't control their children. If they scold or touch them a little, they will go to the roof or threaten them with a knife."

"I want to say that all parents are too late."

"Children should receive frustration education when they are under 3 years old. When children can express their own requirements, they should be told "no".

No matter how much he cries, loses his temper, and lies on the ground, Don't bother with him no matter how he rolls around.

Let them accept, follow, and learn to obey.

Otherwise, once they grow up and have their own ideas, you will face many difficulties. ”

"There is another point, which is also very important."

"Prevent children from playing mobile phones and games. Except for learning-related, they cannot touch the Internet."

"Where do children's thoughts of suicide and running away from home come from? They come from the Internet. There are many dark, unhealthy, and bloody ideas in the games.

And short videos have taught children a lot of toxic ideas."

"Otherwise, why don't children born in the 80s and 90s know how to resist their parents at a young age like children now?"

Hearing Professor Deng's advice.

Many parents in the live broadcast room agreed.

——"What the professor said is right. I will take away all the tablets and mobile phones from my children when I go back."

——"What these two experts said is really good. My child must be given frustration education while he is still young. Otherwise, if he suddenly commits suicide when he is in his teens or twenties, I will cry to death!!"

——"Oh, raising a child is so tiring. My child is in junior high school and he doesn't talk to us every day. He locks himself in the room and we don't know what he is doing. He will scold us after a few words. He also said that if we bother him again, his father and I will never find him again. It's really heartbreaking."